We've all been there - feeling a little under the weather, only to discover that our loved one might be the unwitting culprit. But what if your partner's habits, hygiene, or even their pheromones were causing your unexplained symptoms? We spoke to the experts to uncover the surprising ways your partner could be affecting your health.
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The Kissing Allergy: A Real Thing?
Imagine developing a full pout, only to discover that it's not a result of a new lip gloss, but a kissing allergy. Abbas Kanani, superintendent pharmacist at Chemist Click, explains that this is an allergic reaction triggered by kissing someone who has eaten foods, taken medications, or substances you're allergic to.
"It can cause swelling and itching of the lips, tongue or throat, hives on the mouth, nausea, vomiting, and in very severe cases, life-threatening anaphylaxis, which requires immediate medical attention," Kanani warns.
Treatment involves taking antihistamines, which can be bought over the counter, and discussing any allergies with your partner to avoid consuming known allergens before kissing.
Catching a Cold (or Worse) from Your Partner
We all know that when our partner falls ill, we're likely to follow suit. Abbas explains that colds, Covid, and flu can be passed on through kissing, as the virus is present in the saliva.
"When you kiss, they can directly transfer the virus to you through their saliva. If they cough or sneeze, they may also release tiny droplets that contain the virus, which can fall on your lips or mouth, making you more likely to get sick," Abbas says.
Treatment involves lots of sleep, rest, and hydration, as well as avoiding sharing towels, cutlery, bottles, and pillows for the duration of the illness.
The Hidden Dangers of Perfume and Aftershave
Does your partner's perfume or aftershave leave you breathless - literally? Dr. Chun Tang, a GP and medical director at Pall Mall Medical, explains that difficulty breathing may arise from exposure to strong fragrances or personal care products used by your partner.
"Allergens in perfumes and colognes can irritate the respiratory system, especially in individuals with asthma or other respiratory conditions," Dr. Tang warns.
Treatment involves eliminating products one at a time and noticing how you feel. If you can't work out the root cause, book an appointment with your GP for advice.
Skin Deep: The Surprising Causes of Itchy Skin
Hives and general itchy skin can be caused by lotions, shampoos, soaps - or even your partner's pheromones. Dr. Tang explains that personal care products can contain fragrances, preservatives, and other chemicals that might irritate your skin, especially when you share pillows or engage in close physical contact.
"If your partner has been exposed to pet dander, pollen, or other environmental allergens, these can be brought into your shared space, causing symptoms," Dr. Tang says.
Treatment involves keeping a diary of symptoms to check for any link and avoiding exposure to suspected allergens. If you suspect an allergy, book an appointment with your GP for advice and potential allergy testing.
The Embarrassing Itch: Causes and Treatments
An itch down there can be embarrassing, but it can also be a sign of an STI, yeast infections, or bacterial vaginosis. Abbas explains that the first signs of a herpes outbreak include itching, tingling, or discomfort in the genital area.
"Trichomoniasis, another STI caused by a parasite, can trigger intense itching or discomfort in the genital area, as well as vaginal or urethral discharge and pain during intercourse," Abbas warns.
Treatment involves visiting a sexual health clinic and getting tested for STIs. If you have genital herpes, avoid sexual intercourse and consider treatments such as acyclovir and valacyclovir to reduce the length and severity of an outbreak.
If you suspect latex may be causing problems, switch to latex-free condoms and consult a healthcare provider for appropriate diagnosis and treatment.
